I make no secret of the fact that I receive PR samples (you’ll notice a lot of my posts feature the telltale asterisk). I can’t understand why people do hide that, unless they’re afraid that their readers will take their words with a pinch of salt if everything is given to them for free. I’ve always maintained that that’s a ridiculous fear to have – as long as you remain consistently honest, your readers have no reason to doubt you regardless of how a product came to be in your possession. In fact it’s pretty damn obvious when a blogger has received something for free and not disclosed it, and frankly it just makes the blogger’s integrity look a little shadier.
Anyway, back to the post in question. In it, I said that I couldn’t work out why everyone was praising the hell out of this product when I thought it was pretty damn awful. It couldn’t just be me, could it? I’m sure some people do genuinely like it, different products work for different people blah blah blah but I couldn’t honestly be the ONLY person to write a review on this product who found so many problems with it. But no, it dawned on me that its because, like me, other bloggers are most likely worried what the PR will think. It’s absolutely INSANE that we should feel like this.
The thing is though, as much as I think it’s ridiculous, it turns out I have those exact same fears. Like it or not, beauty blogging is a very very different beast to what it was when I started in 2009. Back then, it didn’t matter if you only blogged once every couple of weeks about some polish you picked up in Boots on your lunch break. Now, there’s a demand for a constant, almost daily flow of fresh new content and 99% of us simply can’t afford to do that out of our own pocket. This is where brand relationships come in – I count myself lucky to have a good relationship with lots of brands and PR agencies as this keeps a good flow of content coming through my blog. As far as money goes, I just about manage to pay my rent and have a sliver of a social life when I get paid each month. Without those relationships, Do Not Refreeze would be a barren wasteland devoid of any new products and I’m certain the same thing applies to 99% of other blogs out there.
Previously, I’ve never given a second thought to writing a negative review. A good relationship is built on mutual respect between PR and blogger, and on more than one occasion I’ve had genuinely grateful feedback from a PR or brand over a negative review. With this particular review tomorrow, I found myself worrying that the PR would be pissed off and remove me from their list. That’s INSANE. Is it because I care more about this brand and am more personally and emotionally invested in it than others? This PR is a lovely girl who I’ve worked with for a couple of years, and I know that she will respect my opinion, so I know it’s stupid. Besides, even if I was removed, I love the brand so much that I would continue to buy their products where money allowed (even know, I buy their products despite receiving PR samples when new collections come out).
I tweeted earlier that I’d just written my first negative review for a brand I loved and ended up having a chat with the lovely Daniel Sandler about it. The mutual conclusion was that honesty is always the best policy. Daniel said ‘Blogging is all about honesty, those who aren’t are shaming it for the rest of you’. He’s sort of right, and sort of not. The sentence is missing one increasingly important word – Blogging SHOULD be all about honesty. And god knows it used to be – but is it still? I’m not sure. I see more and more blogs that never have a bad word to say against a product with an asterisk against it. The likelihood that all the authors are so easily pleased by every single thing that lands in their review pile is slim to none, so it seems to me that the only logical explanation is that blogging is becoming more and more about pleasing PRs than it is about maintaining integrity with readers.
Please don’t get me wrong, I am TOTALLY guilty of this myself. More than once in the past, I’ve found myself trying to diplomatically say something I’ve received for free is shit without outright saying that it’s shit, more to soften the blow for the PR than for any other reason. More recently, in the last year or so, I pussyfoot around a lot less and just say what I think. It’s not damaged any relationships to date, and even if it did I’d keep doing what I’m doing. I’d say the majority of my reviews are fairly positive – and that’s because I only write about maybe 70% of what I receive because I just don’t have time to do it all. If I think a product is ‘meh’, it’s less likely to get a review than a product that blows me away or that I absolutely hate because it’s just not as interesting to write about – or to read about, I’d imagine. When I write a negative review, I write a really negative one.
Anyway… I’m not really sure where I’m going with this any more. All I know is that blogging is TOTALLY different to what it was. Things evolve, I get that, and this industry has improved in many ways but it’s important to acknowledge that it’s suffered greatly in others. Blogging became the phenomenon it is because it was trustworthy. People stopped reading biased magazines and started flocking to blogs for their beauty advice because they were written by people just like them, who would always be honest and truthful. These days, lots of blogs are becoming more and more like magazines – a nice chunky payment will net a brand a nice review, photography is expected to be professional level, and certain ‘talent agencies’ have turned a handful of bloggers into bonafide celebrities.
It’s all very grey and murky, and I really need to go to bed so I’m probably going to stop rambling now. I suppose that overall, this is a confirmation to both myself and to you that I will always, always, ALWAYS be honest. I might have a better camera and more things to talk about than I did five years ago, but I still do and always will blog with EXACTLY the same attitude. Blogs became popular precisely because they were not like magazines. I will never allow my blog to turn into one. It’s a god damn BLOG, that I write as a hobby, and that is the way it will always stay come hell or high water. I promise.